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About the Author

Tova Mirvis grew up in Memphis, Tennessee. She received a masters of fine arts in creative writing from the Colubmia University School of the Arts. She lives in New York City with her husband and son.

 

The Ladies Auxiliary
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Foreword | Discussion Questions | Praise for The Ladies Auxilliary

 

Foreword

 The idea for The Ladies Auxiliary first came to me over coffee with a friend in New York. My friend had recently converted to Judaism. She struck me as someone who was different, who followed her own mind without worrying about what other people thought of her. I was telling her about the close-knit world of the Memphis Orthodox Jewish community where I grew up, and at one point she jokingly asked me, "What if I moved to Memphis?" I looked at her and thought, "My God, what if you did?"

My friend's comment inspired me to think about the way an outsider can challenge a world like the one I had grown up in. In this community everyone knows everyone else, and most people are related in some way. People feel rooted in the city; it is a community that goes back several generations. I am a fifth generation Memphian on one side, and most of my family still lives there. My great grandfather started the Jewish newspaper; my grandparents helped found the Jewish day school there. I grew up feeling thatI had a place, that I was connected to a community and a tradition.

But I also felt that there was little room to be different. There was a strong pressure to conform to a narrow definition of how you were supposed to be, and it was considered wrong to question anything about the community. For me, this was often suffocating, and ultimately I chose to live in a place that was more open.

Writing this novel was a way to explore my own relationship to this community. Adopting the point of view of the women of the Ladies Auxiliary, I began to understand their impulse to preserve a way of life that sometimes felt as if it was slipping away. I missed the sense of kinship that I grew up with. I missed being rooted in a place and having deep connections to a city and the people who live there. But I also felt the difficulty of trying to live in such a close-knit world. I discovered that writing about the community where I grew up separated me more from it. It was as if I had broken a pact not to reveal the inner workings of this world and could never be inside of it again. But for me, part of being a writer means looking honestly at my own world and asking questions about it.  

Discussion Questions  

1. The novel opens with an almost pastoral description of Memphis's Jewish neighborhood, typologically evoking a "city on a hill" image. How do the themes that imbue this first scene set the tone for the rest of the book?

2. Find a passage in which a Jewish ceremony is described. In what ways does Mirvis show the myriad, even contradictory, meanings that it contains for each of its participants?

3. The use of the first-person plural pronoun for the narrative voice emphasizes the collective, uniform nature of the community. The story is told not by any one member of the community but by a chorus. How does Mirvis play with this voice to emphasize moments of dissension or doubt? At what points is the voice the least omniscient?

4. What did you make of the seeming role reversal between mothers and daughters, with the mothers portrayed as naïve and the daughters as more perceptive and worldly?

5. What do you think will happen after the end of the novel? Will Batsheva stay? To what extent will she be integrated, if at all?

6. How do you imagine Ayala to be five or ten years after the end of the novel?

7. This book, with its independent, proud heroine, could be read alongside Nathaniel Hawthorne's The Scarlet Letter (even down to the strange apparitions in the sky). How do they both explore issues of tradition, tolerance, belief, individuality, and forgiveness? In what important ways do they diverge?

8. What characters did you identify with most? Was it always Batsheva?

9. Do you think Yosef's doubt about Judaism predated Batsheva's arrival? Or did it grow out of their conversations?

10. Was there ever a point where you agreed with those who thought that Batsheva had "crossed the line"?

11. How and where does Mirvis blur the division between religious faith and small-town provincialism?

12. Do you think it is possible to carve out a space for individualism within an orthodoxy? Is what Batsheva attempts even possible or, in the end, do you have to choose one over the other? (Perhaps think of other stories—Voltaire's Candide, Ken Kesey's One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Mark Twain's The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Henry James's Daisy Miller—in which someone presents a challenge to an established order.)

13. What do you make of the vision in the sky that ends the novel? How can it be read along with the opening scene of the novel?  

Praise for The Ladies Auxiliary 

"The Ladies Auxiliary, with its brilliantly original collective narrative voice, sheds entirely new light on the nature of community. Insightful and compassionate, it is rich in detail and full of evocative power."—Mary Gordon

"Tova Mirvis's debut novel marks the entrance of an important new voice in fiction. By being so uncompromisingly true to the particulars of the small Jewsih Orthodoxy in Memphis, Tennessee, she manages to produce a tale of the widest universal scope. At once wickedly satiric and lovingly sympathetic, it is an insider's look at the pressures brought to bear on insularity by the appearance of an outsider."—Rebecca Goldstein, author of The Mind and Body Problem and Mazel